Why would you not believe someone who is constantly showing you that they don’t care?
Stop making excuses for them.
Stop blaming yourself.
If they did care why would they be showing the opposite in the first place?
They know their attitude hurts you and hurting people is not love. I know loving someone is not about if the love is returned or not, but stop giving them so much of you if they don’t even appreciate it enough to receive it.
Love yourself first babe, live for yourself. People will enter and exit your life. Some of them would be temporary and some will stay forever. Appreciate them but do not let them posses your heart. You have a heart as gorgeous as your beauty that wants to keep everyone inside but darling, if they want to go, let them.
Remember: Let your heart fill with love, but do not let it burst for it.
©Claudia Hernández, 2017
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Damn. I didn’t know i needed to read this until i read it. Keep advocating! You’re doing it esplendid!
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Thank you!!!
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When I talked to my therapist about my narcissistic ex, she said “you are constantly defending him.” She was right. I always did. NO MORE!
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I’m glad to read that he’s an ex now! Great decision Laurel, hope you’re having a wonderful life😊
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Don’t know about that but anything is better than the misery that was him. 🙂
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“Remember: Let your heart fill with love, but do not let it burst for it.” lovely line!
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☺thanks for reading!!
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Timely for me as well. But it’s hard when it’s your adult son!
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Oh i’m sorry to read that…i’m sure he cares though, we all eventually grow up and really appreciate the people who are always there for us. I hope it’s soon rather than later. Thanks for reading Carolyn💛
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My pleasure!
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Thank you for your kind words. Between you and me 🙂 , he’s better when not in the company of his wife.
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Eres una genia😵😵😵😍😍😍
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🙈❤
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Thank you very much for this post, I really needed to read something like this. You’re amazing ❤
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I’m glad I could help. You’re amazing too💕
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I loved every single word. It is amazing. Everyone has to read it and remember! Thank you.
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Really happy you do. Thank you, very much!!
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The last lines…you got to me. Now give me 30 minutes cause i’m going to read all your blog 🙂
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Haha yay! Thanks for reading.
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Learning to love is such a painful process. As rewarding as hard.
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Totally worth it!!
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your writing and your instagram is PURE ART. You’ll be huge one day!
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THANKS!!!
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Beautifully expressed…… Seriously its really effective…… Thanks for writing this…… Its truly motivational…. Liked reading it…. U have beautiful thoughts….. 😊😊
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Thank you so much! 💛
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Pleasure is all mine…. And thank you for liking my post… That means a lot to me….. Keep smiling…. 😊😊
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I really enjoyed it!! 😊
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That’s very generous of you to say that….. Thank you so much…. And hope uhh will enjoy my other post too…. Lemme know how’s it…. And i really liked what you have posted….. 😊😊
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Beautiful… Don’t let them treat you like a mess… Keep yourself away from those who don’t care, 4 they don’t deserve you…. Nicely written…
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I will and I hope you do too, thanks for visiting😊
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My Pleasure
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You have some beautiful texts!! I loved the emotional load present in them! Keep going with the good work 🙂
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Thank you, Luciana! ☺️☺️
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Really reaaaaaally loved this post!
I can read it so many times and is never enough..
Thanks for the inspiration!!
Xoxo
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Aw thank you!!! I’m really happy you liked it that much💖
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Stop blaming yourself is what we have to do!
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Yeah, that too haha
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Very wise words; recognising and accepting when people are not treating us well, is another form of loving ourselves 🙂
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It is, definitely! Thanks for reading, Gabrielle☺️
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I’ll share a story some day. It’s written already, and the title will be ‘lonely’. Please look out for it on my blog.
There is absolutely nothing as devastating as staying with someone who does not show that they care. You loose it all – your feeling of worth, esteem…. You are an emotional wound no one can see is bleeding. Run from that person you want but who does not show that they want you.
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Keep on writing and letting it all out. I’ll definitely read it when you share it😊😊😊
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This really helped me. Your posts are so inspirational. I really enjoyed reading this thank you xx
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Thank you!!! That inspires me to keep on writing and makes me so happy. Hugs xx
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